Tuesday, March 20, 2012


My future husband. 
He could be anywhere right now.
Doing anything.
He could have just gotten dumped.
Or dumped someone.
Living in another country.
I could know him.
Or not.
He could be sitting there just thinking about me, his future wife.
Thinking about all the qualities he wants in his wife.
And I am just sitting here.
Being that.
You know, his future wife.
I just think about that when things go wrong.
I think about how one day, someone is going to love me more than anything else.
And all the bad and good things that happen now will lead me to him.
If you think someone is great but they break your heart,
it just means someone better is out there.
Waiting for the exact right moment to walk into your life and change it forever.

So when life totally sucks, 
just think about the future.
Because it always gets better.

Monday, March 5, 2012

Don't stop.

You guys, 
Life is good.
So good. 
Stop dwelling on the things that go wrong.
Because there are going to be BILLIONS of them.
But if you look, you will find that even more things go right.
And once you start noticing the good things, even more good things will happen.
Because good things happen to happy people.
And bad things happen to happy people.
But happy people take those bad things, turn them into a lesson learned, and remain happy.
There is really no better way to live.
We have all heard this quote a million times,
"For every minute you are unhappy, that is 60 seconds you will never get back."
And let's be real, who gets mad and stays mad for only one minute?
No one.
So you are losing way too much time to even count.
We will never ever get yesterday back.
But the good news is, we always have tomorrow.
So even if a day goes by and you don't spend it being your happiest self;
Don't stress.
Don't waste another day being mad that you were mad.

If you wake up and don't want to smile,
If it just takes a little while, 
Open your eyes and look at the day,
You'll see things in a different way.
Don't stop, thinking about tomorrow,
Don't stop, it'll soon be here.
It'll be, better than before,
Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone.
Why not think about times to come, 
And not about the things that you've done.
If your life was bad to you,
Just think what tomorrow will do.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Another first.

Define "being in a relationship". 

Is it hanging out every day?
Going on multiple dates in one week?
Not going on dates with anyone else?

If so, I guess you could say I am in a relationship.