Wednesday, April 27, 2011

"I'd rather fight with you than make love with anyone else." 
-Wedding Date. 

I stumbled across this quote today. And I think that is true love. When you want to be with them no matter what. Even when they are making you so angry, you would still rather be with them and be angry than be happy with anyone else. It's not about finding the person who you want to be with for the rest of your life. But finding the person that you can't live without. Find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with, and never ever let them go. 
"So it's not gonna be easy. It is gonna be really hard. We're going to have to work at this every day. But I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day."
Name that movie.
Yes. All time classic, The Notebook.
But it is true. Real love isn't going to ever be easy. And everyday you'll have to work hard to make it good. That is what makes it so good. Because if it were easy, everyone would be able to have true love and it wouldn't actually mean anything. If you aren't willing to work for love, then you don't deserve to be in love. And if you love someone, say it. Say it to their face. And mean it. The worst that will happen is they will reject you and crush every piece of your heart. 
Then you move on.
And you realize that they aren't the person you want to spend forever with. If you keep it all to yourself, then you will never know. They could absolutely be the worst person for you. But at least you'd know. Because they could also be the right one. Its hard to be brave, and "the brave do not live forever, but the cautious do not live at all." (Last quote for today. Promise.) Isn't it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

1 comment:

laura... said...

just ps.
your blog is my favorite.